Lee, If you train yourself to block others out of your focus. You ruin your natural ability to be distracted by each person in a group and when they distract your adhd has to be controled so you realize the importance of what the individual has said and by zeroing in on that important verbal communication you either take it with a grain of salt or pay attention. The difference makes you a great salesperson! The brief moment you think fast and add an item they havent thought of makes you a person they will not forget. If you are taught to not listen you will not be a good salesman! Dad God bless, Peace, Love and Knowledge! F. Clifton Wooley The door in my front yard is a testament to what one man can do to his son and the younger mans family by using his power and influence. Turn stated young man from a saleman to a fighter in a hell he used both in the younger mans own home and the one he has been lured to! One too many personal attacks over a p.a. System in this house and the mere utterance of FEWs name and I went balliztic on his verbal abuse! An outlet for that pain was that door! I proudly wear the scares on my hands to attest to his criminal attempts to train me to not pay attention to his awful words!