unwanted help solving an issue that has already been solved!

Friends,
Have you ever had such an instance or time in your life that just the distraction of of our friends, relatives and others in our lives distracts us to the point we just cannot see the forest for the trees?
A problem or issue in ones life can be very similar in it's make-up as the problem that I listed in the 1st column.
The problem can be of any nature or origin. In fact if your unwanted help is not of the same opinion as yourself the distraction may be made into a much more difficult problem for you, yes you to solve! Forget the so-called help! That is not what it is in fact a diversion may be more in line with a description!
My issue: Well it seems so simple that it is almost absurd I am having to take my valuable time to explain something that has already been solved!
That is the issue of ADHD the associated issues it may encur or entail for your life as you or I age and most likely the problem has been solved on how to deal with those whose life revolves around helping out with something and causing such a mess your close to pronouncing yourself insane, PTSD and running like Hell! Problem is you can't do that not when an issue you might think is not that big of a deal has become a major deal looming on the horizon if you don't figure out how to rid your life of these do gooders!
The problem with do gooders is they only look at the simple details of an issue not the more important elements that some of us take very seriously!
You may ask what are these do-gooders doing that has you in a random bloggin mood?
Distracting and deluding the success or lack of success of a treatment plan that is not new for a condition that I used to manage with no fanfare, that is til I received help! Now I am on disability with these folks I would think would know me best advising me constantly almost imposing their will on me that a longer life with out treatment may be a nicer option than a better quality of life with treatment and the higher dosage medication I had previously utilized to have some positive results!
I hope you control your life because to control mine I would have to have George S. Patton's help in defending against my friends. Seriously! I'm broke so if he needed fuel or supplies I'd be wasting his time as well!
Question is why am I broke?
ADHD?
Hell No! Ten years of success should have become 20 years or thirty regardless of the level financially of that success! That has been proven. I'm trying to read a book entitled Think Fast "the Add experience" by Thom Hartman & Jane Bowman
I had asked my doctor last week for some help in finding a book and if my dumb suggestion that we revisit the possible use of an old but newer ADHD med made by Shire in a reduced dose because of a pressure placed on me by those do-gooders well hopefully I would be able to read the book!
Well it has been less than spectacular as to the goal of sustained attention to read which I cannot live with and other than that the do-gooders have everything else clouded to the point only my past success on this journey keeps me on-track because those folks God bless them have every excuse in the book to make their case- I'm glad they are just the opposite as what I read in my new book!
I am ADHD you know! Sitting still is not our strong suit and add some life experiences and Bam you really get antzy!
I am a fool for letting anyone pressure me into a lower dose of a medication that if not for the do-gooders would be as close to a 100 % symptom control medicine as there is currently available at least in my case!
If I lived longer which why would your doctor prescribe a med that is as known as Adderall XR to you at a dose consistent with living if in fact they thought your longevity would be more important than your quality of life?
I would have to read the Hippocratic oath to know if those two issues are comparable in importance!
I guess my advice to anyone is control your life, research your issues and for God's sake don't let one person change your course of action if at any time you have had any success with that plan! That plan that you had any success with holds the key to solving your problems if you can't simply buy a book that details your life like it's a shadow!
No you are not me and I'm not you but we all succumb to the same stresses and I'll leave you with that to ponder because one more clue is that stress does not have to come from you well that's pretty simple to believe so believing it "stress" is coming from another direction and ruining your life is not a far reach! I hope you feel that way because I'd be insane if I were wrong and unfortunately I'm not wrong so do-gooders solve the mess you have created for me and let me get back to work just as it is outlined in the social security.gov website for God sakes!
Thanks and good luck in your life and may you work til you can work no more if you so wish! Please wish me luck I need it until I can build some money to keep well-intentioned folks from ruining my life at 44!

Sincerely,

Floyd Clifton Wooley