I would hate for you to have to take that class I took today because it means you have reached the end of a relationship and a court has mandated you take the class but if it were taught a little earlier in our kids lives or our maybe some of this collapse of the American family we see would not be and there would be more of us that as friends and partners hopefully more but at least those first two positive aspects of life would be used if just once a day in some form by each partner be it a relationship between lovers or business partners even.
To put it plainly we have seen these ups and downs in all races in this country and around the world most likely but as a mongrel I feel like we mongrels are in a fight to save our families and being blamed rightly so for our part by our spouses and our parents and so on! Just don't tell them that cause it's bad enough as it is!
I'm slowly getting my bearings in fact I have had them back for quite a while but due to some mistakes in my own life and how I've kept upbeat enough to not get swept around til I may have drowned to prove at least one point in my life was positive I don't really know but I have so if you are happy I'm glad for you but if not don't worry you'll find your way back. Just don't feel badly for wanting to be happy because if you do that no one around you will be unless you are in drugged out haze! Well then you will be seen but not heard- laughing or crying!
Unfortunately through experience I identified with the actors in the movies that were only a few minutes in length but thought provoking as I thought back to an earlier time and a divorce that had the very issues in it these people were acting out and it was drama! What do I mean?
The one parent using one kid or teenager to benefit her need to find a way to target the father and the father using the teenage son to target the mother even doing what seemed to me as a fact lying to his son about a support payment.
This book covers so many factors of how all the family members are affected by a divorce that you I hope find time to buy a book that takes a look at the situation from the overview of a family and not one side or the other! I know it is hard to stay neutral but these folks were over the top and I thought I hope I haven't been in the same situation for any length of time because it looks silly but true how people act sometimes.
I'm ADHD, I get irritated quickly control it as I can for the short little time the irritability is there and when not being treated it was more like a flash of dynamite and a calm so it's hard for me to maintain a long drawn out fight because it tires me as it most likely does you if ADD or ADHD especially with the D word in the mix. Yeah even that is worse when you bring it up around older family members because they don't admit the D word exists ah they don't care they take pride in their beliefs as do I mine!
I'm gonna leave it at that and maybe if we could get more talking in our lives instead of less as the trend goes with some I know something positive would come from it as it always has for me!
I hope some of you know me from Dobbins and Dukes Homes or Classic Southern Homes and if you do remember me you know I like to have a conversation! How else to build friendships and homes at the same time? Not any that I know of!
Visit the website and try some of the techniques in your life if you can and let me know if they work! Until I find somebody to talk to in person more myself it's just me and Boo!
www.transparenting.com A families first program. It needs to be first in line to help not last though.
Thanks! Good night!
Floyd C. Wooley
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